A woman is a strong warrior and she has the ability to fight challenges and overcome them with a winning outcome. Along with her personal life she also manages her family and she must get support from the family and society for her welfare but many times they don’t get it, just because they are females.
But without having any support she can handle her matters and deal with the issues in a very peaceful manner. Because she holds the attitude, ‘face it and win it’. And we all know that every woman has a different story. Every woman can fight her battles but what affects her badly is the failure of her marriage. The reason could be any but the effect is long-lasting.
About Madhuben Patel
Madhuben Patel, a woman aged around 65 years, has been through many ups and downs and is still facing them. She has a healthy and fit body, black hair and power in her voice. She always keeps smiling. The home in which she lives is a happy place for her and she enjoys staying there.
She dresses up in a very formal Gujarati saree. She draws in admirers with her strong and independent personality. Her house is constructed in a manner that provides her shelter.
Madhuben was more educated than her husband and today without his support she is able to manage everything very easily. She is a working woman at this age and has been working constantly for 25 years. But fortunately, her son took over the responsibility and asked Madhuben to rest and enjoy her old age.
Friends and family
Madhuben got married when she just turned 20 and left her exams and studies as she had to get married. Navinchandra, her husband worked in a diamond company at that time but then he purchased an auto rickshaw taking a loan to earn from it.
He was an alcoholic and lost everything because of that and one day he just ran away from home after he got into some big issues. Madhuben got into trouble and was requested to make a police complaint but thinking about her children and their future, she didn’t file a case and then never tried to find him and started a new life alone in order to ensure the future of her children. She was working hard to provide an education for her kids.
Madhuben lost her parents when she was a child and all her siblings were raised by her aunt. In the same manner, her in-laws also passed away before she got married. She has educated all her children and now her son is also working and helping his mother in everything. And her daughters, even after getting married provide her with money whenever she needed.
Praful, her son also had a bad marriage and broke up with the girl within a few months of marriage as she was dominating and started asking for money from Madhuben. Today everyone In her family is fit and fine and she does all household work by herself.
During her childhood, she used to play outdoor games with her friends but today she is not in contact with any of her friends. She has seen endless bad days in her life but still, she stays positive and hopeful.
Likes and Dislikes
Madhuben did live a sad life but she also enjoyed many things. Like, she watched movies in her old good days and had her favourite actors and actress. They inspired her to the character they played in the movies, which made her like them. She even watched KBC, a well-known show hosted by the superstar Amitabh Bachhan and tried to gain as much knowledge as she could.
She preferred mostly homemade food, sweet dishes are her favourite and occasionally she does eat sweet dishes but is in control as she was diabetic. She was fond of visiting temples and had faith in God. Whenever it was possible she used the tour and visited the religious temples of gods and goddesses.
Though her husband left, she didn’t give up and was enjoying her life in all possible ways. She not only took care of herself but even nourished her children all of them giving her love and respect in return.
Message
A person should hold the courage and power to be strong enough because life will throw hard times at everyone in an unexpected manner. Not a single person should run away from a bad time. She was a woman who never got love from anybody and has seen many hardships in life, thus she learnt to smile and overcome all the challenges.
Also, her son played a great role in her life and even after destiny played its role in his life; he moved on and took over the responsibilities of his family. He gave up all his wishes to fulfil the desire of his family and only a true man who has been raised by a wonderful woman can do this happily.
